(Bathing the elephants in the river at Mae Taeng Elephant Nature Park in northern Thailand)
Name: Barbara Weibel
Home base: Home, you say? Afraid I can't relate. I've been traveling the world for nine years, the last six years with no home base. Home is wherever I am on any given day, and the only "base" I have is my suitcase.
Number of countries visited: To date, 65.
How I am traveling differently at 60+ than I travelled at 45: At 45 I was still immersed in the corporate world, working 70+ hours a week and taking trips for two or three weeks at a time. Like most Americans, I chose destinations close to home and scheduled every minute in order to see as much as possible. Since leaving that world behind to pursue travel writing and photography, my travels take a much different form. I purchase a one-way ticket to a continent and spend the next few months wandering with no fixed itinerary. When I have seen enough of a city or country, I move on to the next one, relying on advice from locals and intrepid travelers I meet along the way. I schedule very little in advance, in order to take advantage of opportunities that arise along the way.
The destination I would go back to in a minute: Unquestionably, Nepal. On my first visit in 2010, I had intended to stay about three weeks; five months later I was still there. Nepal's genuinely warn people and stunning scenery have a way of getting under your skin, and I try to go back each year to get my annual "fix."
I met this unforgettable person while traveling: In rural northern Thailand I was standing at a dusty intersection when a British man named Ron Wilcox rolled up on a motorbike and asked if I was lost. Our conversation led to an invitation to meet his wife and have tea at his house. I learned that Ron had been helping this remote community for years, and we stayed in touch for several years until he passed away. During his final months, his indomitable spirit, the grace with which he accepted his struggle with cancer, and his words of wisdom via email were an inspiration to me.
My funniest or most unusual travel experience: In a shop in Urique, a tiny settlement deep within Mexico's Copper Canyon, I asked, "Es queso de vaca or de cabron?" Is it cow or goat cheese? Too late, I realized what I had really said. The word for goat is cabra. The word cabron is slang for a man whose wife is unfaithful. The clerk fought back laughter as I stammered an apology. Later that evening I was munching contentedly on tacos when a local man I had never met walked into the hostel's common kitchen. "Are you enjoying your queso de cabron?" he asked politely.
My two bits of wisdom for other travellers: (1) When I first set out on my travels, a very wise friend gave me one piece of advice: "Stay in the present moment." I took that advice to heart and have been forever grateful. When I travel, I don't obsess about the past or fret about the future. I put all my focus on what I am experiencing in the present moment. (2) It may sound trite, but never sweat the small stuff. If reservations go awry or activities get cancelled, approach it as an adventure rather that a tragedy. Almost every time this has happened to me, the result has been a very rewarding experience that would not have happened had everything gone as planned.
My website: holeinthedonut.com
Women's words on being 60 Plus ...
Positive aging is not lost youth but a new stage of opportunity and strength.
(Writer, Betty Friedan)
I didn't want to let women down. One of the stereotypes I see breaking is the idea of aging and older women not being beautiful.
(Photographer, Annie Leibovitz)
Getting older has a wonderful beauty and we need to have respect for that.
(Singer, Eartha Kitt)
Knowing how to age and not being afraid of getting older is very healthy.
(CEO, Evelyn Lauder)
There's no such thing as aging. I see it as maturing and gaining knowledge. I call that beauty.
(Singer, Celine Dion)
Women older than ourselves will always be our mentors. We gain from their wisdom and experiences. They are our super heroines.
(Travel writer, Evelyn Hannon)
(With some help from brainyquote.com)
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