Women’s Travel Memoirs: The Journeys Love Takes Us On

Featured Image: Dr. Mary K. Clark’s father, pictured here at Sumida Farm, inspired her life-long love of travel / Photo credit: Dr. Mary K. Clark

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Dr. Mary K. Clark, a member of our new JourneyWoman Advisory Council, takes the spirit of her father with her when she travels. While she grew up in the Eastern US countryside on a 40-acre farm, her father was involved in local politics and would travel frequently to local, regional and national meetings.

“He’d jump in the car, go who knows where, meet strangers, and be comfortable in any setting. I have a lot of him in me,” says Dr. Clark. “My mother was very comfortable at home in her garden – she wouldn’t travel more than five miles from home – and none of my other siblings are real travellers. I have a little bit of her in me because I can be a homebody.”

That’s something she’s discovered during quarantine as she’s put skills she learned from her mother to good use – gardening, saving a few seeds from the spaghetti squash she’d had for dinner to plant and harvest for the coming summer.

“Both of them have contributed to me being comfortable in any situation, whether that be someone’s small, we-don’t-have-a lot-but-we-know-how-to-make-a lot-out-of-a-little home, or being in Paris at a five-star restaurant having all the wine and cheese and accoutrements,” she says. Growing up as the only black girl in her class cemented Dr. Clark’s ability to adapt to and navigate unfamiliar places and situations. “I become a chameleon when I travel and try to blend in because a lot of my joy is in seeing what the customs are. Of course, when you’re a black woman and you go into a culture that’s not predominantly black, it can be hard to blend in.”

Like father, like daughter – when kindred spirits travel together

When Dr. Clark was in her thirties, she had an opportunity to travel to Hawaii with her father, LeeRoy Clark, for one of his political meetings. It was the first time she’d spent a good chunk of one-on-one time with him. One of her colleagues, Dr. Stephen Sumida at the University of Michigan, told her to drop by and visit his father, Masaru Sumida, at the family farm while she was there.

She says her humble colleague downplayed the scope and importance of the family operation. The Sumida family has owned this farm since 1928 when two Japanese immigrants from Hiroshima decided plantation life wasn’t for them, bought a small plot and looked to their neighbours to teach them how to farm. They’re now the biggest watercress producer in the state, accounting for 70% of the crop. The farm – bordered on all four sides by shopping centres in Waimalu – is something of an urban marvel. It was a perfect bonding opportunity for a farm-loving father and daughter who share a love of travel that doubles as an educational experience.

Saving seeds and yielding squash

Saving seeds and yielding squash – a lesson Dr. Clark learned from her mother. / Photo credit: Dr. Mary K. Clark

“The bus dropped us off at a mall and we found the farm in the parking lot. We discovered that this is a historic site and the farm could not be demolished because of its value to the community,” says. Dr. Clark. “Mr. Sumida and his daughter welcomed us, showed us around the farm, and gave us beads. To see my father interact with this gentleman he had so much in common with was lovely. It was a wonderful day, and a meaningful trip to have had with just him.”

She once joined her father on another work trip, this time in Chicago. The two experiences made her see where she and her father were alike, and where they differed slightly.

“I got my joy and appreciation for being in different places and learning different things from my father,” she says. “On the Chicago trip, I also realized that my father had more energy than I ever would. He was up at the crack of dawn, would go to his meetings, and when they were done, would say: ‘Okay, what do you want to do?’ And we’d spend the evening doing some things together. So I knew he was the travel spirit in the family.”

Get in the car and go – feeding a love of road trips, small towns, and tiny thrifted treasures

Dr. Clark is a seasoned world traveller – solo, with travel partners, and in small groups. But some of her favourite travel experiences have started with getting in the car and driving to rural areas, observing life in small-town USA. A former position as a recruiter for the University of Michigan took her all over the United States and gave her opportunities to explore, discover and appreciate the little things in life.

“After work, I’d explore whatever city or town I was in. Many times, they were large cities, but I would go to the outskirts and try to find a smaller area. I’d visit The Salvation Army or Goodwill and browse what people saw as things that weren’t valuable. Things that I might see as treasures,” she says. “My all-time favourite treasure is a little wooden doll I found in Lawrence, Kansas. She had a black face and yarn braids and was just very sweet. There were no black dolls when I was growing up, so it reminded me of something I would have loved as a child.”

One of Dr. Clark’s prettiest small-town road trips was a drive from Sacramento to San Fran with a friend and fellow recruiter, stopping along the way in towns like Chico and Davis. Her friend loved resale shops, so they decided to focus their trip around thrifting.

“We would go into the Yellow Pages – that tells you how long ago it was – and find out where the resale shops were. Many of them were owned by people who had been there for many years, and they would tell us stories about their community and we’d pick up little items,” she says. “It was fun because there was no plan. We’d just get in the car and stop at whatever shop looked interesting, grab a bite to eat at a little local diner, and keep going.”

Mary Clarks favourite thrifted treasure

Dr. Clark’s favourite thrifted treasure: A sweet little doll with yarn braids. / Photo credit: Dr. Mary K. Clark.

Want to read the most thrilling of Dr. Clark’s travel memoir stories – a once-in-a-lifetime cross-USA motorcycle tour with a former flame? As a JW Circle Member, you’ll get access to in-depth interviews, members-only content, and more! COMING SOON! 

Dr. Mary K. Clark is an administrator at Wayne State University. Her 30+ year career as a transformational leader is enhanced by her interests in family history research, painting, and travelling.

Her top travel tip: “Trust your instincts, use common senses, and do your research before you leave home.”

Dr. Clark offers advice on: “Travelling comfortably on a budget using points and miles; travel as self-care.”

Meet Our Travel Advisory Council Members

Amanda Burgess

Amanda Burgess is a Toronto-based writer and creative strategist whose bags are always packed for her next adventure; co-founder of the Sharyn Mandel School in Gobele, Ethiopia; and Acting Editor of Journeywoman. Follow her and her adventures on Instagram @unshakeable.me.

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