When a Mother-Daughter Journey Through Greece Goes Awry

by | Jun 20, 2021

Last updated on November 2nd, 2024

Unexpected adventures in Crete, Ios, Naxos and Santorini 

by Carolyn Ray

Imagine this: you’ve just travelled halfway around the world for a week-long mother-daughter beach holiday in Crete, one of the most beautiful places in the world. You pull into your dream homestay, confident in your ability to choose the most perfect place…  only to discover it’s in an industrial parking lot, surrounded by piles of gravel, and nowhere near the town or the beach you had planned to spend your days on.

That’s what happened to me in Chania, Crete.  I had no choice but to throw my meticulously planned travel itinerary out the window, wish it well, and let the universe guide me. What I learned has influenced the way I travel forever. Goodbye schedule, hello freedom!

After months of planning, I created a detailed itinerary that included stops in Crete, Santorini, Naxos and Rhodes, and Athens. Since it was my first time in Greece, I wanted to have a range of fulfilling and dreamlike experiences, including Airbnbs, cave houses and boutique hotels. 

Ferries, planes, car rental – check. Tickets purchased, routes laid out, and all boarding times itemized. Check.

It doesn’t start well in Chania, Crete

We arrive in Crete at midnight after almost 24 hours of travel, from Toronto to Athens to Heraklion.  My daughter Alyx, her friend Rebecca, and I pile into a taxi and head for Chania. The driver, a local, isn’t able to find the address. Not a good start.

When we finally find it, things are not what I expected. My lovely Airbnb ‘elegant Cretan mansion’ is simply not going to cut it. While it looks close to the beach on a map, it is actually at least 20 minutes away in an industrial area, surrounded by a gravel pit and guarded by the most enormous and ferocious Rottweiler I have ever seen, straining at his leash.  This doesn’t feel safe, nor does it feel like what had been advertised.

We have no choice but to stay the first night due to jet lag, but the next morning I awaken early, find a car rental agency and hit the open road.

Crete’s terrain is mountainous / Photo from Envato Elenents

Falasarna’s white beaches beckon

An hour later, bundled in a ratchedy Jimmy all-terrain vehicle, I drive east, toward Kissismous and follow a winding road that took us far up into the mountains. I have no map, no idea where I was heading, but I know we will hit water at some point – this is an island, after all!

After about 90 minutes, olive groves appear, and then, in the distance, I spot the ocean, colourful umbrellas and a white sand beach. I have no idea where I am, but soon discover that the beach in front of us is Falasarna. Not only is it one of the most famous beaches in Crete, it is also ranked as one of the top 10 beaches in Europe. The girls are beside themselves and begin ripping bikinis out of their bags, ready to launch themselves into the turquoise water. However, I have to find a place to stay, too.

The road narrows and becomes a one-lane dirt road. It ends in a surprising way: at Sunset Villas, a family-owned boutique hotel with a beautiful view and outside terrace covered in vines and flowers. Within 10 minutes, Maria has given us two perfect rooms, overlooking the beach, for about 50 euros. I am in heaven!

Falasarma is the perfect place for us to feel the wind in our faces and celebrate freedom. Turquoise water, fine sand, and a choice of beaches – some with rocky shores and other, more intimate beaches. We spend the day in the water, jet skiing, reading, and enjoying the warm sunshine. Finally, I feel like I’m on vacation. That night, we enjoy a delicious homemade Greek dinner, serenaded by noisy and welcoming cicadas, at the taverna. It’s a moment I will never forget.

Family-owned Sunset Villas in Falasarma/ Photo provided by Carolyn Ray

stunning beach with rocky shore

Stunning Falasarma bay/ Photo provided by Carolyn Ray

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Elanfonissi: one of the world’s top beaches 

A few days later, I drive up into the mountains and follow the signs to Elafonissi, Greece’s top beach. A protected nature reserve, Elafonissi is simply surreal, with pink sand, giant coral above the water and clear, shallow waters. It is quite windy, but somehow that doesn’t detract from the experience.  With its shallow lagoon and island, I feel like I am in the South Seas.

After spending the day there, it’s time to find a place to sleep. With my two expert navigators leading the way, I drove an hour south to Paleochora, which is incredibly quaint, with open-air restaurants, musicians and a beachy kind of vibe. It’s also a stop for cruise ships, so is quite busy. Every hotel I inquire at is sold out. 

Quite by chance, while browsing in a store, I meet the receptionist from the Hotel Glaros. She immediately secures a room for us for the night. What a wonderful surprise! 

The world famous Elafonissi Beach / Photo by Carolyn Ray

Santorini: Life in Cave House

Santorini is the next stop on our itinerary. I am surprised and impressed by the quality of the ferries: they are well run, generally on time and the interiors are just like an airplane, with assigned seating.

I am thrilled with our cave house, Casa Sigala, which I found on booking.com. It seems suspended over the ocean, overlooking the caldera. The food in Santorini is outstanding: my favourites included poka, with its stunning views of the sunset. Both Lotza and Strogili have beautiful views of the caldera and boats zipping by far beneath us.

Eager to get on the water, we spend the first morning on a catamaran and toured nearby islands, including the volcano hot springs. It’s easy to see how this is considered to be the lost city of Atlantis; it’s so stunning. Sunsets and romance are in the in the air in Santorini, and I wish I could stay longer. Alyx and Rebecca love the shopping and the views; I think Snapchat had a busy day.

Alyx and Carolyn in Santorini  / Credit Carolyn Ray

Stunning Santorini  / Credit Carolyn Ray

Naxos and its famous Portara

The next island on my list is Naxos, known for its stunning beaches, including Plaka and Agia Ana. Naxos appeals for its laid-back style, quaint old town and busy port in Naxos Town. With its churches, monasteries and Venetian castles, it’s very lush, scenic and fairly undiscovered. It’s famous for the Portara or Great Door, which sits on a small island that you can walk up to. Built in 530 BC, myth has it that this is where Ariadne, the Minoan princess, was abandoned by her lover, Theseus, after he killed Minotaur on the island of Crete.

On my first night in Naxos, we stay at the boutique hotel Lagos Mare on Agios Prokopios beach. As I swim in the warm ocean, I decide to make another schedule change – to abandon the return trip to Athens via Rhodes. To get to Rhodes, I would have had to return to Santorini and take a 3 am ferry. This means an entire day of travel. Being on a beach is definitely more appealing. I take a bus into Naxos Town, cancel my hotel in Rhodes, and exchange my ferry and plane tickets.

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A view of Naxos from the island / Credit Carolyn Ray

Ios is calling!

Instead of Rhodes, I decide to visit a nearby island called Ios. I find a small, family-owned hotel called Psili Ammos, right on Mylopalatas Beach. This is a highlight of my trip, because of the family that owns this hotel and the Drakos Tavern underneath. Built over 60 years ago, this was the first hotel on the beach, which is now a top destination.

The owner, George, gives us a lovely white stuccoed room room with blue shutters that overlook the ocean, and his cousin serves us dinner at the family taverna downstairs. I eat octopus, fish and mussels caught that day in the ocean. On my last day, I take a bus to Maganari beach, a charming bay on the south side of Ios. It is so clear that I could see Santorini from my beach chairs. The return to Athens is on a fast-speed ferry, another change in my agenda, but much more enjoyable than flying.

The family-owned Psili Ammos / Credit Carolyn Ray

Just go with it!

My trip was unexpectedly spontaneous, full of rich and authentic experiences. Being able to live in the moment, follow the waves, and change direction like the breeze, made it even more exhilarating and memorable. I have a feeling the universe was sending me a clear message: just go with it. It’s a lesson I will remember.

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In 2023, Carolyn was named one of the most influential women in travel by TravelPulse for her work advocating for women over 50 in travel. She has been featured in the New York Times, Toronto Star and Conde Naste as a solo travel expert, and speaks at women's travel conferences around the world. She leads JourneyWoman's team of writers and chairs the JourneyWoman Women's Advisory Council, JourneyWoman Awards for Women 50+ and the Women's Speaker's Bureau. She is the chair of the Canadian chapter of the Society of American Travel Writers (SATW), board member for the Cultural Heritage Economic Alliance (CHEA) in support of Black and Brown businesses, a member of Women's Travel Leaders and a Herald for the Transformational Travel Council (TTC). Sometimes she sleeps. A bit.

1 Comment

  1. Chris Jamieson

    Thoroughly enjoyed your article Carolyn, free-wheeling around the Greek Islands would be my kind of holiday, love the feeling of the islands having been to corfu too, have noted your beaches & accoms for future planning!

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