JourneyWoman Book Club: “Tales of a Female Nomad: Living at Large in the World” by Rita Golden Gelman

About this Book

By Carolyn Ray

 “I move throughout the world without a plan, guided by instinct, connecting through trust, and constantly watching for serendipitous opportunities” – From the Preface

Tales of a Female Nomad is the story of Rita Golden Gelman, an ordinary woman who is living an extraordinary existence. At the age of forty-eight, on the verge of a divorce, Rita left an elegant life in L.A. to follow her dream of connecting with people in cultures all over the world. In 1986 she sold her possessions and became a nomad, living in a Zapotec village in Mexico, sleeping with sea lions on the Galapagos Islands, and residing everywhere from thatched huts to regal palaces.

She has observed orangutans in the rain forest of Borneo, visited trance healers and dens of black magic, and cooked with women on fires all over the world. Rita’s example encourages us all to dust off our dreams and rediscover the joy, the exuberance, and the hidden spirit that so many of us bury when we become adults.

Grab your backpack! This is going to be a good one! 



Our Take on this Novel 

To come after our book club session on January 20.

 Carolyn and Wendy, your book club hosts 

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Tales of a Female Nomad, by Rita Golden Gelman

JANUARY 27, 2021, 8 PM ET 

Recommended by: Kathy
Published in: 2002  

The true story of an ordinary woman living an extraordinary existence all over the world.

“Gelman doesn’t just observe the cultures she visits, she participates in them, becoming emotionally involved in the people’s lives. This is an amazing travelogue.” —Booklist

More than a travel memoir, Tales of a Female Nomad is the story of a woman’s rebirth. Rita Golden Gelman’s real-life tale proves beyond a doubt that anyone can cast away the burdens of conventional life at any age and continue — or begin — to thrive.

State of Wonder, Ann Patchett


Rita Golden Gelman is the author of more than seventy children”s books, including Inside Nicaragua, which was one of the ALA”s Best Young Adult Books of 1988, and More Spaghetti, I Say!, a staple in every first grade classroom. As a nomad, Rita has no permanent address. Her most recent encampments have been in Mexico and New York City. 

Now 80 years old, she spent 30 years of her later life without a permanent residence. Rita has literally traveled around the world – living in often rural places in Mexico, Indonesia, Africa, Laos, Thailand, Guatemala, Colombia, India, Tanzania and more. Trained in Anthropology at UCLA, Rita mostly lived with families, immersing herself in local culture as much as possible.


To come; we’re still reading it! 

Discussion Questions (these are a guide, we may have others too!)

1. What was your favorite passage and why?

2. Have you ever dreamed of doing what Rita did? What’s standing in your way? 

3. Some of the time Rita travelled using Servas ( Have any of you travelled with them, or other services that allow you to stay in someone’s home in the visiting country?

3. What prevented Rita from traveling at the beginning of the book? Can you relate to this? 

4. She often is the only “older” person among young travelers. Has that been your experience?  How have different generations enhanced your travel? Share a story from your travels. 

5. What were some of the obstacles she had to overcome once she began traveling on her own? Have you experienced these? How did you overcome them? 

6. Why is it different for a woman to travel on her own as opposed to a man, and how did she overcome this obstacle? 

7. What lessons did Rita learn about politics and freedom when she was in Nicaragua?

8. What did she learn about spiritualism throughout the book? Have you had similar experiences? 

9. What impact did her travels have on her family? Her children? 

10. What was Rita’s key to success as a Nomad? 

11. Based on what you’ve read in this book, or your own experience, what would your advice be to a woman who wants to travel solo and lead a nomadic life? 


Cathy Gotfriend, Head Babe/ President, Erawan Tours/Babes in Bali

With a lifetime of wanderlust and 34 years in the travel business, Cathy loves creating unique individual travel arrangements to SE Asia.

As a Travel Agency owner and experienced Tour Manager/Leader, her goal is to create travel opportunities for women who might not otherwise feel confident about travelling internationally. She is very grateful to combine her love for Bali with making women’s dreams come true.

Cathy is also a member of the JourneyWoman Advisory Council, a group of 13 women who generously support our ambition to help women travel safely and well.

At Cathy’s request, we will be making a donation to an orphanage in Bali that helps children with special needs. 

Cathy Gotfried


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